I've always disliked seeing guys carrying their girlfriend's handbags. Especially the small, dainty, tiny ones. Like, wtf? Too heavy? =.=
But, now that I have the habit of lugging my huge black bag around, I realise that it actually feels pretty good that your guy will automatically help you take your bag.
A does that for me. At first, I resisted. Cos I just didn't like the idea of a guy carrying a woman's bag. But, now, I just give it to him when he asks, cos I'm so lazy. =X And my bag's pretty heavy too. So, sometimes I'm actually glad that he asks. =X *huggies*
Going out with A tmr, and his family. Scary. =X